Our work is never to forget! We dedicate moments, hours, days and years donating time, money and a spirit that travels far beyond the patient wearing a hospital gown. Knowing that breast cancer is not only about the person diagnosed, but breast cancer is about every individual who knows or loves a person living with it. Keeping this in mind, we remember those who died and the lessons they leave behind. We dedicate our work to the families and communities that have been touched by each life. This generates an energy that motivates us to continue our work helping to educate, advocate and assist those who are in need. While using our hands, hearts, feet (and that miraculous space between our ears) we give and honor the names of those "one-of-a-kinds" who are listed on a page of their own where they remind us to make a conscious effort to cherish life. We acknowledge them and ponder who and what they left behind. November 21, 1954 ~ October 15, 2009  Mary Ellen was an avid reader who loved reading romance, gothis, and sequel stories similar to Lord of the Rings. She long dreamt of a journey to her beloved Scotland and made that dream a reality of a 3 week trip in October 2001. While there, she visited the cathedrals and distilleries and could tell you about the best Scotch. Her love of Scotland continued after her trip and she at one time was considering finding employment there and moving. However, she lived her Scottish life here in Camarillo, enjoying the series the “Highlander” and attended the Highland Games at Seaside Park in Ventura for many years. Mary Ellen researched the clan her family was from which was the MacLeod’s.Mary was an example to many of us. She was ever the optimist with her special smile. She was courageous, strong and brave. We referred to her as out “Braveheart.” Mary Ellen proudly shared her cancer diagnosis openly in order that she might be a model of hope and inspiration to others.  On behalf of the board of directors of Ribbons of Life Breast Cancer Foundation, it is my deep regret to inform you of today's passing of our dear friend and fellow board member, Debbie Zahner. Her soft-toned conversation, smile and genuine caring for each and every one of us will be missed and is now just a memory away. Debbie proudly chaired our ROL Photo Quilt Project and liked being called "The Quilt Lady". In speaking with her this past Saturday, I assured her that we would continue working on the project she initiated. Debbie positively responded and was proud to leave this "life" quilt behind as one of her many life legacies. Debbie Zahner's Memorial Service – Saturday, October 4, 2008 at 11 a.m. |
